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Man Facepalming
man feys-pahm-ing
Definitions
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Emotion Β· Frustration
Very Common
A gesture of placing one's palm against the face, typically expressing frustration, embarrassment, or disbelief at something perceived as foolish or disappointing.
Used to indicate exasperation or dismay at someone's actions, statements, or a situation that seems ridiculous or avoidable.
He tried to microwave metal again π€¦ββοΈ Some people never learn.
Group chat
Just watched the politician contradict himself three times in one interview π€¦ββοΈ
Twitter/X
Forgot my laptop at home and I have a presentation today π€¦ββοΈ
Work messaging
Popularized by internet culture and memes, particularly Captain Picard's facepalm from Star Trek, representing universal frustration across cultures.
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Reaction Β· Self-Deprecation
Common
Used to acknowledge one's own mistake or foolishness, often with a hint of humor or self-awareness.
Commonly employed when admitting an error or oversight to soften the admission with self-deprecating humor.
Just realized I've been spelling 'definitely' wrong my entire life π€¦ββοΈ
Social media post
Spent 20 minutes looking for my phone while talking on it π€¦ββοΈ
Family group chat
Functions as a digital equivalent of the physical gesture, allowing people to express embarrassment while maintaining face in text-based communication.
Evolution Timeline
2010
The 'facepalm' gesture gained popularity through Star Trek memes featuring Captain Picard.
Viral spread of reaction images on forums and early social media
2016
Introduction of the facepalm emoji across major platforms following Unicode 9.0 approval.
Growing demand for expressing exasperation in digital communication
2018
Became standard reaction to 'fake news' and misinformation across social media platforms.
Rise in political polarization and concerns about information accuracy
2020
Usage spiked during COVID-19 pandemic in response to conspiracy theories and pandemic denial.
Public health misinformation and contentious social media debates
Cultural Context
The facepalm gesture gained iconic status through Star Trek: The Next Generation, where Captain Picard's facepalm became one of the internet's earliest and most enduring memes.
Functions as a non-confrontational way to express disagreement or disappointment without directly attacking someone, preserving social harmony while still communicating criticism.
One of the most frequently requested emojis before its introduction, showing how digital communication evolves to incorporate physical gestures that convey complex emotions.
The term 'facepalm' evolved from a physical gesture to a verb and noun in internet vernacular before becoming an emoji, exemplifying how internet culture creates new linguistic patterns.
While used across age groups, younger users tend to use it more ironically or sarcastically, while older users employ it more literally to express genuine frustration.
Regional Variations
Australia
Often accompanied by colorful Australian slang and more direct language.
United Kingdom
Often used with dry humor and understatement, particularly when commenting on social faux pas.
United States
Often used with sarcasm and exaggeration in response to political statements or public gaffes.
Generational Usage
Gen_X: Employed more literally to express genuine frustration, particularly in family group chats and Facebook. Often used in political commentary.
Gen_Z: Often used ironically or sarcastically, frequently combined with other emojis to create layered meanings. Common on TikTok and Instagram in reaction to 'cringe' content.
Older: Less frequently used, but when employed, typically represents sincere exasperation without ironic undertones, often in response to technology challenges or social media posts.
Millennials: Used extensively in workplace communication (Slack, Teams) to express frustration with processes or mistakes in a way that maintains professionalism while showing emotion.
Common Combinations
π€¦ββοΈπ
Expressing frustration but finding humor in the absurdity of a situation.
Indicates the user is annoyed but not genuinely angry, softening criticism with humor.
π€¦ββοΈπ€·ββοΈ
Complete exasperation followed by resignation or giving up.
Communicates both frustration and helplessness about a seemingly unsolvable problem.
π€¦ββοΈπ―
Acknowledging something is undeniably, 100% facepalm-worthy.
Used to emphasize the absolute certainty that something is ridiculous or wrong.
π€¦ββοΈπ₯
Extreme embarrassment or a spectacular failure that's painfully public.
Often used for viral fails or public gaffes that spread rapidly online.
π€¦ββοΈπ
Expressing frustration but asking for patience or understanding.
Often used in work contexts when apologizing for a mistake while showing exasperation.
Related Emojis
π€¦ββοΈ
Female version of the same gesture
π€¦
Gender-neutral version of the same gesture
π€·ββοΈ
Often used together to express frustration followed by resignation
π
Expresses similar frustration but with more resignation than active exasperation
π
Conveys similar disapproval but with eye-rolling dismissiveness rather than palm-to-face frustration