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Shushing Face
shuh-shing feys
Definitions
1
Gestures Β· Silence
Very Common
Indicates a request for silence or secrecy. Used to tell someone to be quiet or to keep something confidential.
Commonly used in casual conversations to signal that information should be kept private or that noise should be reduced.
I'm planning a surprise party for Sarah π€« Don't tell her!
Private message
The baby's finally asleep π€«
Family group chat
I know who got the promotion, but π€« until the official announcement.
Work chat
Represents the universal gesture of placing a finger over lips to request silence, recognized across most cultures as a non-verbal cue for quietness.
2
Communication Β· Secrecy
Common
Indicates possession of secret information or insider knowledge that shouldn't be shared widely.
Often used to create intrigue or suggest the sender knows something others don't.
I know what's happening with the merger π€« Will tell you in person.
Professional message
Just heard the real reason they broke up π€«
Social media comment
In digital culture, frequently used to hint at gossip or exclusive information, creating social currency through implied knowledge.
3
Social Β· Discretion
Common
Signals that content is sensitive, private, or potentially controversial and should be approached with discretion.
Used to preface content that might be considered inappropriate in certain contexts or that requires privacy.
π€« Don't check your email at work - I sent you something NSFW
Personal message
My honest thoughts about the new manager π€«
Private group chat
Functions as a digital content warning that acknowledges social boundaries while simultaneously crossing them.
Evolution Timeline
2017
Introduced in Unicode 10.0 as part of a set of new face emojis with more nuanced expressions.
Growing need for emojis expressing complex social interactions in digital communication.
2018
Gained popularity on Instagram and Twitter as a marker for sharing gossip or insider information.
Rise of 'tea' and gossip culture on social media platforms.
2020
Usage surged during pandemic lockdowns as people shared information about breaking restrictions.
COVID-19 lockdowns created new contexts for secret activities and confidential information.
2021
Became associated with 'soft launch' relationship announcements on social media.
Evolution of how relationships are revealed gradually online rather than announced.
Cultural Context
Functions as a digital speech act that simultaneously acknowledges social norms around privacy while often violating them through the act of sharing.
Serves as a paralinguistic marker that modifies the interpretation of accompanying text, signaling confidentiality even in public digital spaces.
Younger users employ it more playfully to create social intrigue, while older users tend to use it more literally to request actual silence or privacy.
Emerged as digital communication created new needs for signaling confidentiality in environments that are inherently not private.
Western cultures tend to use it for gossip and secrets, while in some Asian contexts it's more commonly used to literally request quiet in public spaces.
Regional Variations
Australia
Commonly used with Australian slang and in contexts related to circumventing rules or authorities.
United Kingdom
Used with more restraint and often in contexts related to actual privacy rather than purely for dramatic effect.
United States
Frequently used in casual contexts and on social media to indicate gossip or secrets, especially among younger users.
Generational Usage
Gen_X: More likely to use literally to request quiet or indicate actual confidentiality. Less frequent usage overall, mainly in family or work contexts.
Gen_Z: Frequently used to create intrigue around gossip or to hint at exclusive information. Common on TikTok and Instagram Stories with implied meanings.
Older: Limited usage, primarily literal when requesting silence or in reference to grandchildren being asleep. Often misinterpreted as showing illness.
Millennials: Used both literally and for dramatic effect when sharing insider information. Common in private messaging and work contexts about office politics.
Common Combinations
π€«π
Suggests knowing a juicy secret or having mischievous insider information.
Common in gossip contexts or when hinting at scandalous information without explicitly stating it.
π€«π₯
Indicates exciting or scandalous secret information that's too hot to share openly.
Used especially among younger users to create intrigue around relationships or social drama.
π€«π€
Emphasizes the importance of keeping information completely confidential.
Used when sharing sensitive information that requires absolute secrecy from the recipient.
π€«π
Suggests secretly observing something or someone without their knowledge.
Often used when discussing celebrity sightings or monitoring social media activity of others.
π€«π―
Confirms the absolute truth of secret information being shared.
Used to validate gossip or insider information as completely accurate despite its confidential nature.
Related Emojis
π€
Indicates keeping silent about information rather than requesting silence
π
Often paired with π€« to indicate secretly watching or knowing something
π
Similar meaning of not speaking or revealing information
π
Often used together to indicate mischievous secrecy
π
Represents silence but in a more literal, audio-focused way