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Smiling Face with Tear
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Definitions
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Emotional · Mixed Feelings
Very Common
Expresses mixed emotions of happiness and sadness simultaneously, often used to show someone is putting on a brave face while feeling hurt or emotional.
Commonly used in bittersweet moments or when trying to appear okay despite feeling sad.
Just watched my best friend get married and move across the country 🥲
Instagram caption
When everyone's going out tonight but you have to work early tomorrow 🥲
Twitter/X post
My son's first day of college. So proud but missing him already 🥲
Facebook post
Gained popularity during the pandemic as people tried to maintain positivity while struggling with difficult emotions.
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Emotional · Gratitude
Common
Indicates being emotionally touched or moved to the point of tears by something positive, often expressing deep gratitude or being overwhelmed by kindness.
Frequently used when receiving unexpected support, compliments, or witnessing heartwarming moments.
You all came to surprise me for my birthday? I can't believe it 🥲 Thank you so much!
Group chat message
Reading all your supportive comments on my post about getting my dream job 🥲 You guys are the best!
Instagram story
Represents vulnerability in positive contexts, showing it's okay to be emotionally moved by good things.
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Emotional · Irony
Common
Used ironically to express disappointment, frustration, or acceptance of an unfortunate situation while attempting to maintain positivity.
Often employed with self-deprecating humor about life's small disappointments.
Third job rejection this week 🥲 Still staying positive though!
LinkedIn post
When you spend hours cooking and your family eats it in 5 minutes 🥲
TikTok caption
Reflects modern internet culture's tendency to process negative experiences through irony and humor.
Evolution Timeline
2020
First introduced in Unicode 13.0 during the early months of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Global need for an emoji expressing complex pandemic emotions
2021
Gained widespread popularity as people navigated returning to normal life with mixed emotions.
Post-lockdown social anxiety and bittersweet reunions
2022
Evolved to become a staple in Gen Z humor, often used ironically to acknowledge life disappointments.
Economic uncertainty and housing crisis affecting young adults
2023
Increasingly used in professional contexts to soften difficult messages or express gratitude.
Growing acceptance of emotional expression in workplace communication
Cultural Context
Released during the COVID-19 pandemic, this emoji quickly became emblematic of the complex emotions people experienced during global lockdowns and isolation.
Represents the psychological concept of emotional ambivalence—experiencing contradictory emotions simultaneously, which gained recognition in mainstream discourse during the 2020s.
Reflects changing social attitudes toward emotional vulnerability, particularly among younger generations who are more comfortable expressing complex feelings publicly.
Embraced by Gen Z as part of their characteristic approach to processing difficulties through irony, self-awareness, and emotional transparency.
Fills a communication gap in digital expression by conveying the nuanced emotion of 'smiling through tears,' which previously required longer textual explanation.
Regional Variations
Australia
Often used with humor to acknowledge life's hardships while maintaining a laid-back attitude.
United Kingdom
Often used to express stoic resilience in the face of minor adversities, aligning with British 'stiff upper lip' cultural values.
United States
Frequently used with ironic undertones in meme culture to express putting on a brave face through disappointment.
Generational Usage
Gen_X: Adopted for expressing genuine mixed emotions, particularly around family events and life transitions. Less likely to use ironically.
Gen_Z: Central to meme culture; frequently used ironically to acknowledge life disappointments with humor. Especially popular on TikTok and in group chats.
Older: Less frequently used; when employed, typically represents sincere emotional responses to family news or expressions of gratitude.
Millennials: Used sincerely for bittersweet moments like parenting milestones, career changes, and nostalgic reflections. Common on Instagram and Facebook.
Common Combinations
🥲👍
Pretending to be okay with something disappointing or hurtful.
Used when putting on a brave face despite feeling upset, especially in group chats.
🥲❤️
Touched or moved to tears by someone's kindness or love.
Commonly used in response to supportive messages or expressions of care.
🥲🙏
Grateful but emotional, often overwhelmed by support or kindness.
Frequently used when receiving help during difficult times.
🥲✨
Finding beauty or positivity despite feeling sad or emotional.
Popular in captions about personal growth through difficult experiences.
😂🥲
Something is simultaneously funny and painful or disappointing.
Used to acknowledge the humor in unfortunate situations.
Related Emojis
😂
Both involve tears but with different emotional contexts
😊
Both show smiling but with different emotional undertones
😭
Often used interchangeably in contexts of being emotionally overwhelmed
🙃
Both express putting on a positive face during difficult situations
🫠
Both convey emotional complexity and maintaining composure while struggling